Keep your heart with all vigilance, for from it flow the springs of life. - Proverbs 4:23
Scripture tells us many things about the human heart, both good and bad. But it’s the neutral comments that seem to speak loudest. Our title passage is one that does so. We are told to be vigilant with our hearts. We must be careful what we allow into it, but most important, we need to control what comes out of it in our thoughts, words, and deeds.
Our hearts were given to us to hold our emotions; our brains were given to us to hold our emotions in check. A quick perusal of mankind’s history assures us that all emotions are not necessarily designed for our benefit. “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it?” - Jeremiah 17:9.
Our hearts often define us. Our mannerisms, our joys, our concerns, our values, our morals depict to others what we hold in our hearts. We can be humanists at heart, believing in the infallibility of mankind, his imaginations, and his ability to make things right, or our hearts can display our desires for a Godly life under God’s own terms. Biblical counselor, Jeff Forrey, has said, “Both ways of describing the heart’s role presupposes some kind of relationship with God, whether it is intimate or distant.” He says that the heart influences our thinking patterns, our behavior patterns, and our feeling patterns. Truer words have never been spoken.
So how can we direct our hearts to achieve the best likely outcome of thought, word, and deed. Jesus had very specific directions when it came to our hearts. “And he said to him, ‘You shall love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind. This is the great and first commandment. And a second is like it: You shall love your neighbor as yourself.’” - Matthew 22:37-39. When we read this command from Christ, we must be careful to note that while we are to love our neighbors as ourselves, it is secondary to the supreme command that we love God with all our heart, soul, and mind! God and His ways come first. And in perfect honesty, we cannot possibly love our neighbors the way we should unless we first love God.
Once we give to God what is God’s. Our emotional life should come into focus so that we can see the overblown sentimentality that so often parades as brotherly love in this day and age. If we’re not as passionate in our defense of our love for God as we are for the impoverished or oppressed, then we are merely virtue signaling and hoping that people see us as having the moral high ground, which is impossible. It is impossible because man can not shape his thoughts, words, and deeds, let alone his feelings, based upon the shifting morality of humanist beliefs, which change with each succeeding generation and within each individual culture. Human based morality often changes by the hour.
True, Godly morality is unchanging because God is unchanging. “The counsel of the Lord stands forever, the plans of his heart to all generations.” - Psalm 33:11. Therefore, we wage war with God. His statutes are unchanging and they truly are ‘written in stone.’ They don’t change with next passing wind. They don’t change like the weather. They don’t change like our tastes do. They are here with us forever. And what of those who deny these truths? God made it clear many, many years ago. “Many are the plans in the mind of a man, but it is the purpose of the Lord that will stand.” - Proverbs 19:21.
We can resist, reject, and refuse the Word of God if we so choose. But we can never thwart it.
Are we in a constant battle with ourselves and others? Are our emotions literally hijacking our thoughts, words, and deeds - our very lives? As long as we remain recalcitrant toward God and His very specific plan for our lives, we will remain unhappy, unfulfilled, and incomplete. If we cannot guard our heart, we will muddy the springs of life that flow from it. We must seek intimacy with God Almighty and close the distance between ourselves and God’s designs for us if we are ever to be truly in line with our emotion-driven thoughts, words, and deeds. Only God’s Word has the power to clear the water.