Would You Rather I Lied To You? - 1 John 1:8

If we say we have no sin, we deceive ourselves, and the truth is not in us.  - 1 John 1:8

    “Who has sinned today?”If you want to throw your next get-together into turmoil, just ask that question of your guests. Invariably, you won’t get many to admit their sinfulness. It just goes to show exactly how full of ourselves we have become. Scripture is clear on the issue -  “If we say we have not sinned, we make him a liar, and his word is not in us.” - 1 John 1:10.
    Obviously. That isn’t a very tactful way to approach the subject of indwelling sin in our lives. However; the spectacular nature of our sinful pride is so apparent that we have little excuse to even suggest that we are ‘without sin.’ We spend so much time making excuses for our thoughts, words, and deeds that we forget what David declared in his psalm of repentance and contrition - “For I know my transgressions, and my sin is ever before me.” - Psalm 51:3. Yes, and whether we’re willing to admit it, our sins are always before us, too.
    Of course, what many people think of as sin falls into ‘the most heinous of deeds’ category. In fact, most people don’t even consider their thoughts or words to be sins. After all, what does my thinking have to do with being overtly sinful and how do the words that come out of my mouth make me a sinner? Everyone has bad thoughts from time to time, and everyone says bad things from time to time. That doesn’t make us sinners; not if everyone does it, and not if I don’t act on my thoughts. Does it?
     Jesus Christ had a different opinion. “You have heard that it was said, ‘You shall not commit adultery.’ But I say to you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart.” - Matthew 5:27-28. The key to Christ’s interpretation isn’t as much in our actions, although they do count, but the well-spring of our thoughts, words, and deeds. Where, exactly, do they originate? Our hearts!
    In The Book of Jeremiah, God said, “The heart is deceitful above all things, and desperately sick; who can understand it? I the Lord search the heart and test the mind, to give every man according to his ways, according to the fruit of his deeds.” - Jeremiah 17:9-10. This is one of the clearest statements made about the sinfulness of man in the entire Bible; but there are others.
    That anyone, even slightly versed in the knowledge of Holy Scripture, could miss the point of man’s innate sinfulness is astounding. That believers in Christ could so thoroughly miss the point of our sin is a clear sign that they are professors of a faith that they know very little about. “as it is written: ‘None is righteous, no, not one; no one understands; no one seeks for God. All have turned aside; together they have become worthless; no one does good, not even one.’” - Romans 3:10-12.
    In our hypothetical, even if outrageous scenario, I can hear the door slamming and the car engines starting now. They’re fleeing from our get-together like there’s a fire! Have we embarrassed them? Offended them? We probably have. And if given the chance to ask them all just one more question as they angrily turned and sped away from us, our question should be - “Would you rather I lied to you?” Sadly, many would. That’s the world today. Even the most vociferous professors of the Christian faith dislike admitting that they are hopeless sinners without Christ. Confessing their sin is beneath them. Like politics; they just don’t want to talk about it. And their greatest excuse is that their faith is a private matter for them and no one else’s business. While tactfully approaching the subject remains our God-given command, there are those who would still brusqly push away any admission of or attempt to discuss the subject.
    Nothing within this short missive is a lie! The truth often hurts and is most insensitive, but it’s still the truth. And the truth is so important in the eyes of God that he commands it. If we lie, we will reap the whirlwind; if we tell the truth, we will have mercy. “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.” - Proverbs 28:13. Some may prefer a lie to the truth, but Christian love demands we speak the truth. And I would rather offend someone with the truth than to let them slide unfettered into hell on the coat-tails of misplaced kindness.