Is This Love? - John 13:34

A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another; as I have loved you, that you also love one another. - John 13:34

    Love - probably one of the most misunderstood and thus misused word in any language, except for perhaps Greek. The Greek terms for love actually is a four-fold treatment of how we are to relate to one another. But the Greek word for love that concerns us here is the word “agapaō.” to love in a social or moral sense. This is the sense in which Christ was telling His disciples to love their fellow men. “Therefore, whatever you want men to do to you, do also to them, for this is the Law and the Prophets.” - Matthew 7:12.
    This simple concept remains perhaps the most difficult for mankind to grasp, despite it being the very essence of God’s Law - “For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” - Galatians 5:14.
    To quote and exposit upon the many commands of God to love our fellow human beings would take volumes. It is the rhyme and reason for Christ’s incarnation. “For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.” - John 3:16. Suffice to say, love is the lynchpin of the Gospel. “Greater love has no one than this, than to lay down one’s life for his friends.” - John 15:13. It is as fundamental to our Christian claim of faith as is our obedience to God - “And this commandment we have from Him: that he who loves God must love his brother also.” - 1 John 4:21.
    And this Greek word for love, “agapaō,” is the root of the tree that bears good fruit! It is this kind of love that must fill our hearts for one another, as well as those who would do us harm - “But I say to you, love your enemies, bless those who curse you, do good to those who hate you, and pray for those who spitefully use you and persecute you . . .” - Matthew 5:44.
    Selfish love will not do. Jealous love will not do. Spiteful love, angry love, unholy love, words of love will not do! We must ask ourselves, “Is this love?” And if it fails to meet the measurement of agapaō love as commanded by God, then whatever it may be, it is not Godly love.
    Of course, we must never confuse advocating sin as a measure of our “love” for someone. To suggest that the real measure of Christian love is to show toleration for another’s sinful lifestyle is disingenuous and sinful in itself! We must be quick to admonish those out this Christian love - “Faithful are the wounds of a friend, but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful.” - Proverbs 27:6. When we quietly assent to the sins of those we are supposed to love we do them more harm than good. Our Lord and Savior, Jesus Christ who is love, admonished us all when He said to us - “The time is fulfilled, and the kingdom of God is at hand. Repent, and believe in the gospel.” - Mark 1:15.  So in the strength of the Holy Spirit, may we always love as God has loved us, for the love of God.